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[Housingcraze]

DP family doing meal for step mum, instead of arranging it with everyone, DP got told when it is and feels he has to attend knowingly we at wedding tonight booked for months, so can’t drink wants to leave at 10pm

I don’t see why DPcannot just say no rearrange something else for step mum? As he won’t enjoy himself as much tonight as was really looking forward to drinking dancing evening away! I wish he Day in future can I be involved and asked instead of being told that’s it!

Waiting to be ripped into! I think he needs to step up! He hasn’t seen friends in months! See family weekly, one time wedding!

Wedding tonight meal tomorrow of course he can do both. Why all the drama

I think you are making a massive mountain out of a molehill, OP.

If you are too exhausted from CFS to go tomorrow, send him by himself with your apologies.

I don't understand people who can't enjoy themselves without getting blotto drunk. Why couldn't he be a grown up and have just a few tonight, so that he'll be safe to drive tomorrow?

Or is he saying go home early tonight so that you can get enough rest to be able to cope with tomorrow too?

So you weren’t going to the birthday thing anyway but because he does you’re saying you can’t drink at the wedding?

I’m confused.

I don't understand why you can't do both. Wanted to drink? Is that the best you can do?

Just realised who you are OP. Are there any camels at the wedding?

Oh I was confused the meal is tomorrow? How wasted were you planning to get that you couldn't go to a meal the next day?

@sweeneytoddsrazor I was hoping so but it was unicorns

OP your posts read as if you were drinking, even this mornings... It's been quite disjointed to follow.

But "at a wedding we replied to months ago & hotel staying over in" of course trumps "last minute birthday meal booked without asking".