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That Meghan Markle should be left alone?

43 replies

Cheekymonkey1234 · 14/02/2019 19:47

Perhaps this subject has been discussed on here already, but every day I open my social media account I get something about Meghan Markle, honestly every single day, from different news media. Everyone seems to know how she is, what she’s up to besides her work or her supposed attention seeking, or whether she is chased or vilified by the media too much or too little. Or whether she should get on with it or she should keep her head down or up. Honestly, leave the woman alone! She’s pregnant and doing a lot of good work, besides being married to s Royal, leave her alone fgs!

I don’t particularly like her or dislike her, but I have a lot of sympathy for her now seeing how the media is treating her. Just a rant, sorry!

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TaimaandRanyasBestFriend · 17/02/2019 12:53

Who fucking well cares?

Ghanagirl · 17/02/2019 12:55

@MorningRichie
So because she’s mixed race she should expect to be treated like shit.

Amrapaali · 17/02/2019 13:13

Ghanagirl are you being deliberately obtuse? Confused

Richie is pointing out ethnicity is something toe-rag tabloids usually jump on...jeez talk about being trigger-happy

Theunreasonableone · 17/02/2019 13:40

I couldn’t really care less about her TBH but she needs to stop her friends leaking stuff to the press, coming out in support of her (with approval from the MM publicity machine) a generally making a living and social network hits off her. A dignified silence from her and her buddies would go a long way in ingratiating herself with the public.

Ghanagirl · 17/02/2019 14:22

@Theunreasonableone
I don’t think that will make an iota of difference some of the people who are vitriolic in their dislike of her do so because of something that she can’t change nor would she want to.

ScrumpyCrack · 17/02/2019 14:28

You’re oddly invested.

EdWinchester · 17/02/2019 14:59

Kate received nothing like the opprobrium Meghan does. No comparison.

AldiProsecco · 17/02/2019 15:07

Waity katy, workshy, middle class oh the shame, planned to marry prince william, her mother schemed and sent her to st andrew's, her mother was an air hostess, her parents are in trade, her mother she chews gum, her parents are social climbers, social climbers with good taste, who do they think they are!? Kate let jigsaw down, she hasn't done a day's work in her life, she sat around waiting for william for a decade.

It went on for YEARS, what a short memory you have!

EdWinchester · 17/02/2019 17:03

Yeah, but pretty innocuous compared to what Meghan is subjected to.

EdWinchester · 17/02/2019 17:03

Yeah, but pretty innocuous compared to what Meghan is subjected to.

FirstOfHerName · 17/02/2019 18:37

Being called Waity Katie and workshy is nasty but not really comparable to the racism and xenophobia Meghan has been subjected to.

Sureyouwill · 17/02/2019 18:46

I haven't seen any racism towards her, but the constant drivel about her is tedious. Leave the woman alone! Pregnancy is a stressful time so I hope for her sake she completely blanks all forms of media, as they can't seem to shut up about her.
And it's the white side of the family that is letting her down, so nothing racist at all.
Her family are a disgrace and it must be horrific for her being shamed so publicly and constantly by her own bloody family.

Sureyouwill · 17/02/2019 18:47

@FirstofHerName Where is the racism and xenophobia that you've seen?

FirstOfHerName · 17/02/2019 19:02

Erm where do I start? "Not an English Rose"? "Harry's girl straight outta Compton"? Harry being allegedly targeted by a new Nazi group?

FirstOfHerName · 17/02/2019 19:02

*neo Nazi

FirstOfHerName · 17/02/2019 19:07

A good piece on the dog whistle racism Meghan (and indeed other successful black women) get subjected to.

QwertyLou · 17/02/2019 22:32

YANBU.

However, threads like this contribute to the problem - they just create yet another platform for her to be endlessly criticised basically for existing and marrying someone.

She’s already got her father, half-siblings, daily mail and Piers Morgan relentlessly on her case without MN joining in.

If you want to support her, perhaps go and put positive comments on the official social media accounts (I’ve read that horrifying comments are regularly made there and need to be deleted).

But starting threads here doesn’t help and can actually harm (imo).

Imperfectsusan · 17/02/2019 22:51

YANBU.

The criticism is so petty minded and obsessive. And very probably racist and classist. Not to mention out of touch. And I'm not even a royalist.

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