Calm down people!
Look, I grew up with understanding the Golliwog was an image on a pot of jam, and that later on, I learnt that it was meant to have come from Egypt. Not JUST ME, all the people of my generation n older, especially in the UK.
If the TRUTH, is that it was originally used for racism, then I'm sorry that's the case.
I grew up in middle class farming community or very small towns (under 10k population) most of my younger life, I never met a different coloured person until I was 14. His dad had come to England and our area for work. I knew the physics teacher didn't like him, but didn't understand why (I do now).
I didn't know a single non white person until I moved to the city and started a job in the call center. For 8 years we all worked together (about 6 of us, changed campaigns and stayed together no matter what). One of my earliest memories was zafrine introducing herself as a Paki. The only time I ever said the word was when SHE was joking about, and we'd all join in together... White, black, Indian, and of course Pakistani. None of us abused the other, and to.my knowledge no one was picked on.
I don't go around shouting it at random people... Never have, and never heard of it until I moved here.
I no longer work at the call center, due to a collapsing spine n neck, and mental health issues (some of it due to my childhood).
I've never intentionally been racist, as theres no need for it, especially now in this day n age, when we know right from wrong.
I will stick up for what is wrong, and the weak, as best I can, and I can't stand bullys (had enough of that as a kid bring in care). So.i don't use words to cause hurt, not intentionally, and if I still worked with the people, I'd be the first to go in n apologise to zaf n the others, if I thought I'd caused them upset..... That's who I am. I talk to.people the way they want to be talked to, and if someone says ... It's ok to call me this or that, I do, it's what they asked it said it was ok.
Don't go presuming that I'm racist or trying to say I e suffered in the same way. I was just trying to say, that pc racism exists too... Pc racism, is when an establishment block white people deliberately so they can definitely have minorities only. It's so they can tick a pc box to say they're doing the right thing or whatever reason.
I do t care what creed or religious background you are or come from, if ya treat me with respect, I'll treat you the same. I give everyone a chance to be a friend.... I'm a great believer in, to make friends, you must be friendly.
I hope that clears up any misunderstanding