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To think someone is trying to scam me.. photo attached

162 replies

Aaahhhelp · 13/02/2019 09:32

Hi everyone,

I put my wedding dress that I no longer want on gumtree yesterday. Last night I had someone asking do I still have the wedding dress. I replied yes and would they like to come and see it and got this reply this morning... as it said I would have the funds before sending I did think it was genuine, however a part of me thinks it sounds like a scam!

What do you think? And should I reply?

To think someone is trying to scam me.. photo attached
OP posts:
WithAllIntenseAndPurposes · 13/02/2019 11:38

CANCEL THE CHEQUE

lilydilly · 13/02/2019 11:39

@NunoGoncalves

Reply saying...

If you are looking to con me, I can tell you I don't have money. But what I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you stop trying to scam me now, that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don’t, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will kill you.

Ba ha ha ha ha !!! Grin

Yep, tiz a scam.

caughtinanet · 13/02/2019 11:40

I assume you don't sell much, scammers are the bane of online selling, trust no one

chocorabbit · 13/02/2019 11:41

Don't do a bank transfer either!!! They can still reverse the transaction as there is not intermediary like ebay, amazon etc to hide your details.

Mumofboys95 · 13/02/2019 11:44

It's a scam
I was selling a car in gumtree and got the same message twice from different people

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 13/02/2019 11:45

@Aaahhhelp

Are you sure you actually want to sell your WEDDING dress? Shock

misses point of thread................ Blush

woollyheart · 13/02/2019 11:53

This scam is common for wedding dresses. They hope that everyone is so overjoyed at being offered the asking price so rapidly.

anniehm · 13/02/2019 12:12

A scam - PayPal allow transaction reversals. Say it's cash or cleared cheque only

TaliZorahVasNormandy · 13/02/2019 12:13

This is why you always do cash on collection only for stuff that cant be sent through the post. Itll weed out a few chancers.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/02/2019 14:20

Tali I see! So that would go:

Scammer: I want my money back, this is broken
Me: What money?

Works for me!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/02/2019 14:31

Aside from all the other red flags, why would hearing loss (or even total deafness) prevent you from being able to collect something in person?!

5SleepingLions · 13/02/2019 14:36

scam definitely
I had a similar message when I was selling my sons pram and I told her straight that I would accept cash only and she could send whoever she wanted to get the pram but I would only accept cash on collection because she wasn't going to scam me.
funnily enough I didn't hear from her again

Auntiepatricia · 13/02/2019 14:37

Known scam.

Soubriquet · 13/02/2019 14:40

Everyone who's here saying this might not be a scam - please understand that one day you're going to fall for one of these, you are far too trusting. Any attempt to pay by PayPal and collect by courier is 100% a scam. 100%.

No! I did this on eBay. Someone was selling a pushchair I wanted. Collection only but I had no way of going. So I asked if it was ok if I booked and paid a courier. She said yes, so I went ahead and did it. I paid via PayPal for the buggy too.

Onetwopyjamacrews · 13/02/2019 14:41

This happened before to my sister where she got an email from paypal saying the money was in but it wasn’t paypal iyswim she cottoned on but I bet alot dont

E20mom · 13/02/2019 14:43

Yep it the classic PayPal scam.

Soubriquet · 13/02/2019 14:46

Oh I want to add I used a branded courier though. I can’t remember who but it was someone like Hermes or DHL

SubisYodrethwhenLarping · 13/02/2019 15:07

100000% SCAM

Vixxxy · 13/02/2019 15:07

Yup, scam. Almost word for word of the message I got when selling my wedding dress. I found it odd as this kind of thing is usually for expensive phones and that, not second hand dresses that I was selling for fifty quid!

They will send a fake paypal 'you have recieved money but it wont show until buyer gets item', usually filtered to spam.

Guineapiglet345 · 13/02/2019 15:14

How could anyone possibly not think this was a scam?

Purpleartichoke · 13/02/2019 15:17

It is a classic scam. I think craigslist even has examples of it on their website.

Purpleartichoke · 13/02/2019 15:18

They will also need to overpay you and have you pay cash to the courier

allinmyhead12 · 13/02/2019 15:18

its a scam, i had the same reply when i was trying to sell my car!!!!
We ignored them completely

ChardonnaysPrettySister · 13/02/2019 15:19

Blimey, I thought I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and the I saw the identical email another poster had.

I hope I never get called for jury duty, I'll probably find reasonable doubt to let Escobar go......

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