Brief summary, partner & I got together 5 yrs ago. Both divorced, me from dv relationship, him wife left cos of his non sexual relationship ( best friend)with another woman.
He gave good reason for the relationship and ? stupidly I fell in love with him.
But now it’s tearing me apart, I am included in a lot of their day to day dealings with each other but they message each other throughout the day, he makes any excuse to see her, and even when I’m there follows her around with his eyes.
Her now husband doesn’t seem to be aware or isn’t bothered by their ?infatuation with each other.
Am I reading too much into this ? Can a man and woman just be very good friends without it affecting their relationships?