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Is this harassment?

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whatdoyouwantfromme · 06/02/2019 21:48

DH's is a volatile character, known for flying off the handle. She regularly will call DH, multiple times calling him a dreadful father, me a terrible step mother. Shout hang up repeat.
Same via text, pages and pages of all the reasons we are bad parents. For days at a time.
After years of this, I blocked her.
Now she isn't getting the response she wants I've discovered she's been messaging old/rarely used numbers emails.
Is there anything I can do about this? Apart from blocking all possible avenues?

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CrispbuttyNo1 · 06/02/2019 21:50

Get legal advice and a solicitors letter sent to her.

RupaulsGagRace · 06/02/2019 23:21

Yes. It is.
Unblock, report to police, allow them to see how regularly she does it.

RupaulsGagRace · 06/02/2019 23:22

(I think its police, or legal advice as previous pp said. Have a log of everything)

whatdoyouwantfromme · 07/02/2019 22:06

I'm not sure I could cope with seeing the abuse right now, but appreciate that I should keep a record.

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anxiousbundle · 07/02/2019 22:09

100% harassment (it only legally has to be 2 occasions of the victim fearing for their life/safety/unable to do day to day activities due to the harassment).

Is there any way you'd be able to file for a restraining order, I'm not being funny, but she doesn't sound like she's of a sound/reasonable mind! Do the kids live with her majority of the time? Would you be willing to take the kids full time?

whatdoyouwantfromme · 10/02/2019 06:34

Kids full time with her. Tho, we'd happily take. Currently going legal for access.

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