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Wtf677 · 01/02/2019 23:09

Tell me what is wrong with me please? Why do people take advantage of me?

For example my ex did a little bit of work on my house (he offered) while doing this minor job, he has cleared my shed of any tools I have! I’ve told him to return my bloody stuff, but why would he think this ‘ok’ in the first place?!

2 neighbours think it is ok, to continually ask me for favours. Even though if it’s not convenient to me, I say NO. If they push, I will tell them don’t take the piss! Yet, they still do it!

Even sitting on the bus, I will always be the person people sit next to, tell their problems to, drunks make a bee line for, ask for money etc!

What the hell? Do I have a ‘doormat’ sign?

How do I get rid of it, other than poking people in the eye, when they look at me?

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Tokenjester · 01/02/2019 23:15

Oh dear, I’ve suffered from this too - just say no & it’s not convenient! Once you’ve said it a few times, you’ll see that nobody thinks any less of you, and you’ll get more confident setting boundaries

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