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So angry at DS dad!!

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Mumsyof3boys · 01/02/2019 18:32

I'm so frustrated! My DS will be 13 next month. His father has been with his gf for around 4 years. He had never paid a penny for our DS until a year and a half ago. Through CMA he was to pay £150 a month, after 3 months it went down to £100 because his gf who he lives with said he was paying her CM for their son. Fair enough.
They got married 4 weeks ago but have been living together for 3 years. So there was no payment last week or this week so I messaged today and they said there's a change of circumstances so I said that's fine but what's happening and was told because they got married they won't be paying until they contact CMA!
Literally no circumstances have changed. It's not the point of the money. I've supported my son myself for all these years but it just feels like they constantly want to find reasons to cause problems. I'm so annoyed 🤷
Sorry for the rant 🙈😂

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Aprilshowersarecomingsoon · 01/02/2019 18:40

You need to ring cms tomorrow.

Mumsyof3boys · 01/02/2019 18:48

From they got married they've turned into frigging psychos 🙈 I'd rather they just said we can't pay this instead of all the games, it goes into my DS saving account and I managed without it for 11 and a half years! He was the one contacted CMA to set it up, not me 🤷

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