I am one of these wet fish parents who dont buy the hoodie.
My child is one the annoying children who need safeguarding - in fact all my children do.
My children's birth parents could recognise their faces if they saw them - they have a distinctive disability which makes it easier to spot them - if they had their fairly unusual first name stuck on the back of a jumper that would confirm their identity - if you then put our surname with it they would know who our child now is.....
knowing what primary school they just left is actually a fairly big deal, it gives a huge clue into what community they live in, what high school they are likely to now go to, where to look for them.
If a birth parent had that information we would have to change schools, move house, move our lives.....we have already done this once when some idiot parent put a single picture of 1 of our children on the internet.
in the GP our children are all called out as my name....it protects them all.
in hospital waiting rooms they have a number which comes on the screen rather than their name - the doctor then comes out and calls my name...it protects them.
in public our children use nicknames, we very rarely use their full names. we never would use our surname and first name together.
children like mine exist everywhere - perhaps you simply don't know any who are this unsafe - or perhaps you do - their parents simply haven't told you. a tiny handful of my friends know the real danger we are in if we are found.
its a hoodie yes. if you put my kids name on it, on any piece of clothing it could lead to us being found. end of. why is that so difficult for people to understand?