To think this relationship is odd...

[Nevergotobedfangry]

Bite my head off if you wish, I just find the following scenario strange!

Woman I kind of know (not very well) messaged a man (her now fiance) to ask if she could be in his music video. They did not know each other at all, was completely random.
He told her (knowing he was unable to get the amount of girls he wanted in his music video) "yeah sure I'll chuck them out for you to be my vid"
Few weeks passed. She messaged him again. He told her that he was all hers, all the girls were gone.
They agreed to meet. (They live 3hr train journey apart)
Meant to be a one night kind of thing.
She introduced her kids to him ect rater quickly. She often stays at his with her kids for long amount of time. He openly says he only wanted a one night stand with her but now apparently they are soulmates!

I find it bizarre.
However, I have nothing against meeting someone you talk to online, just me personally I wouldn't do that.

🤷🏻‍♀️ If she’s happy it’s fine, people meet in all kind of odd ways

Sounds like R Kelly.

Well happy maybe sometimes. A lot of arguing goes on I know that much

I really don't see a problem - people meet in all kinds of weird and wonderful ways.

A lot of arguing goes on I know that much

But that's got nothing to do with how they met.

I met my partner online. We've been together 14 years. Yes we've argued but that's not because of how we met.

Maybe it's just me OP but you're coming over as a bit jealous.

Don't get the video bit and the chucking 3 girls out.

Does not compute

Weird post. If they’re happy I can’t see an issue. I fully thought DP would be a ONS or just a fling before we met but four years later we own a house and have a baby . Life happens.

I'm lost.

Sorry OP I don’t see the issue?

When I met DH we both thought it would be a ONS, almost 11yrs later - almost 8 married, and two DC we’re still very happy and still joke that it was only meant to be a ONS.

I don't really see the issue. They obviously fancied each other from the photos online, flirted and eventually got together. It wouldn't be the first one night stand that turned into a relationship. Who knows of it will last but I don't see the problem so far.