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Reception TA let ds drink water bottle without Washing it as promised

104 replies

Seventy70 · 23/01/2019 21:39

I forgot my ds water bottle in school.I saw the teaching assistant next day who told me she had found it and assured me she would wash it out and replace water.She didn't do this and ds came home with same water ,I knew because I'd put a little lemon in with his water.Just feel let down and like she thought who cares she won't know but because of the lemon I do.Would this concern you?

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notacooldad · 23/01/2019 21:58

Jesus wept! 😳 seriously?

petitdonkey · 23/01/2019 21:58

you feel let down??? Sorry but that is my first ever Biscuit

ShatnersBassoon · 23/01/2019 21:59

He'll have been drinking out of the water play tray every day since September, so don't worry about him getting dehydrated.

AWishForWingsThatWork · 23/01/2019 21:59

It wouldn't concern me at all; it's one day, it's water, it will be just fine.

What would concern me is the lemon. Ask your dentist if s/he thinks a lemon in a child's water is a great idea for their teeth ... just sitting there, day in and day out...

Pinkbells · 23/01/2019 21:59

I really think it would be OK, I usually wash my kids' water bottles out with hot soapy water every night, but a couple of times we've forgotten and they've never got ill or anything. Also the lemon would act as a disinfectant?

HoppingPavlova · 23/01/2019 22:02

I’m struggling to understand what is upsetting? A child drinking day old water, meh, no harm done. If I was the TA I would think you did for suggesting it in the first place and would just say no it will be fine.

Once I made my own kids responsible for their own water bottles they were lucky to be washed once a week. Refilled from the tap at school when they got it out of their bags and realised it was empty/nearly empty from the day before. Quite often on a Monday I would say don’t forget your water bottles and they would still be in the bag from the week before. Seriously, kids don’t die from stuff like thisGrin.

MissMisery · 23/01/2019 22:02

If it was a plastic bottle, I would be surprised if you could taste a small amount of lemon over the taste of plastic (the particles of which get into everything)
Non issue (compared with the plastic)

HoppingPavlova · 23/01/2019 22:03
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strawberrisc · 23/01/2019 22:03

Oh God. You’re THAT parent.

FrancisCrawford · 23/01/2019 22:03

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Smoggle · 23/01/2019 22:04

She's busy
She forgot
It's not her job anyway
Stop putting stuff in his water!

Cantaana · 23/01/2019 22:05

So you forgot your DS's water bottle - which is an acceptable 'failure' in your mind. But the TA forgetting to wash it out concerns you.

Hmm

(so many perfect gifs for a response to the Grin )

MoaningSickness · 23/01/2019 22:05

Water bottles are really good breeding grounds for bacteria, so ignore all the 'I don't wash bottles for weeks' idiots, but if your child is healthy you'd have to be very unlucky for one day be a problem. TA said they would do a thing and forgot. It's unfortunate, but not a big deal. Just remember the bottle in future!

enjoyingscience · 23/01/2019 22:06

I'm trying to imagine the acid look I'd get if I asked my DS's reception TA to do my washing up for me!

It's not their job, and day old water will do no hard whatsoever. (As others have pointed out, lemony water might - too much acid.). Even if she set out with good intentions to do you a favour and rinse it, the fact it slipped off her list is hardly something to get wound up about.

Also as others have pointed out, reception kids are minging anyway, and will be exchanging germs in far more creative ways.

brizzledrizzle · 23/01/2019 22:06

No, not a big problem in the scheme of things.

MissionItsPossible · 23/01/2019 22:07

YABU. I managed to get through school just fine without being in instant reach of a bottle of water and I’m sure many posting here managed the same. Bottled water companies know how to market themselves, I’ll give them that. I personally would have been grateful to be able to drink manky lemon and potentially poisonous day old bacteria-filled germy water. Kids these days don’t know how good they’ve got it..

Thehop · 23/01/2019 22:08

Lemon on water is really bad for teeth.

Onecabbage · 23/01/2019 22:12

Get a f....ing grip! Do you know how old the water is that you drink? You know, that 50k year old water from underground?

You do realise the plastic bottle you put your pfb’s water in is much more toxic than day old water?

Impatienceismyvirtue · 23/01/2019 22:13

Jeezo. Have my first ever Biscuit

Mulberry72 · 23/01/2019 22:14

In the nicest possible way, get a grip!!!

YABVVVVVVVU! As if the TA is going to have time to wash your DC water bottle out because you forgot to take another one!

Seventy70 · 23/01/2019 22:18

Thanks for all your responses.I had a little bit of a giggle at some and feel a little silly now.It was just that she offered to do it without me asking.I would have happily done it myself .@ all who wondering why lemon I don't usually put any lemon but ds has been under the weather and not drinking as much so added it for extra flavour and vit c, probably won't be doing it again though!

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cansu · 23/01/2019 22:19

I am sure she didn't do it deliberately. I am guessing she forgot! I really wouldn't waste any time thinking about it.

nakedscientist · 23/01/2019 22:26

Perhaps she did change the water but the bit of lemon didn't come out of the narrow neck of the bottle.

nakedscientist · 23/01/2019 22:26

Perhaps she did change the water but the bit of lemon didn't come out of the narrow neck of the bottle.

HoppingPavlova · 23/01/2019 22:29

Water bottles are really good breeding grounds for bacteria, so ignore all the 'I don't wash bottles for weeks' idiots

So is your dishcloth and a thousand other things around your living environment. Yet people are pretty hardy in the whole and rarely get sick. The joys of the vast majority of common bacteria being harmless in everyday situations, stomach acid and immune systems. You are probably at more risk of illness from shaking someone’s hand.

You do realise people go trekking for substantial periods of time without giving their water containers a hot water soapy scrub out. Again, vast majority of people would be just fine with such things.

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