I willingly left my home town aged 17 to go off to uni, lived in another city for 3 years. Had enough by the end and briefly moved back home. Then spent my 20's in another city renting. Met my partner aged 30, moved to an unknown village and had a child 5 years later. Here I am aged 40 not liking where we live, unable to quite put my finger on why I just have no roots or connection with the place, it seems random that my child will know this village as their home when really it means nothing to us. I'm Not articulating this well but I suddenly have an urge to up and move but I don't know where to or why exactly. We've no good reason to move - nice house, nice affluent area etc - aibu to feel this way? How do you know when you are settled and living in the right place for you and your family?