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To feel more sad for Landeover employees than Andy Murray

132 replies

Blankscreen · 12/01/2019 01:24

On the day that 000s of redundancies are announced at JLR I can't feel sad for a Millionaire sportsman who has had to retire due to his own body as opposed to someone else making the decision for him.

The new coverage of the two stories has really irritated me.

Does anyone else feel like this?

OP posts:
Sparklingbrook · 12/01/2019 09:47

I am able to feel sad about both.

From what I can gather AM is in a lot of physical pain which may or may not be permanent.

There's been loads of other news too. Confused

Youseethethingis · 12/01/2019 09:51

YABVU. Two different events. Not comparable. Not either/or. Not reasonable to expect one persons distress to render another’s meaningless. Perfectly legitimate to sympathise with both circumstances. This sort of minimising attitude is so dangerous, and with all the campaigns to bring more understanding to mental health and the like, I am surprised it still seems to be quite common.

HauntedPencil · 12/01/2019 09:56

There is plenty of reporting on other events if you take a few seconds to make an effort to find it.

Why shouldn't this be reported? If you aren't interested don't read it Confused

Never ceases to amaze me what people find to whinge or be offended by.

FlibbertyGiblets · 12/01/2019 10:02

Comparing apples with pears and finding the pears wanting for not being apples, mmmmk.

wowfudge · 12/01/2019 10:03

It's not a competition is it? AM is in constant pain and is having to give up a career. To not feel for him because he is rich is frankly odd and shows a lack of empathy.

Lizzie48 · 12/01/2019 10:06

I agree with PPs that YABU. We can have empathy for both. It isn't a competition here.

Yes, AM has earned a lot of money during his career but he's dedicated his life to tennis from a young age, so it must be devastating to have to quit before his time because his body has let him down. Especially as tennis players seem to peak in their thirties these days.

It's also a big news story because AM has had such a massive impact on tennis in this country. He will be missed (though I'm sure he'll be in the commentary box!).

Unfinishedkitchen · 12/01/2019 10:15

If it’s a competition then I vote to feel far more sorrow for Andy Murray than the workers in that area who voted for Brexit.

I believe the majority in that region voted that way. Not a shred of sympathy from me as I recall them saying economic problems were a price worth paying. I do however, feel desperately sorry for those who realised you can’t pay your mortgage and buy food with a blue passport and sovereignty.

Geminijes · 12/01/2019 10:18

Do you have to feel more sad about one than the other?
Both are sad events but in completely different ways. They are in no way comparable.

gamerwidow · 12/01/2019 10:18

Why is Andy Murray’s unhappiness being weighed against the Landrover workers anyway. Did he vote leave or have shares in Landrover and demand they were sacked?
I’ve got enough compassion to go round for everyone who finds themselves in difficult circumstances.

JacquesHammer · 12/01/2019 10:24

I never understand why sport is featured on the news at all tbh

Really? You’ve never understood? Confused

OP YABU, most people have the capacity to have sympathy for more than one situation.

Mookatron · 12/01/2019 10:25

Really! I'm not being arsey about it. I just don't see why sport should be in the TV news with all the other, er, actual news.

Sparklesocks · 12/01/2019 10:27

You can have empathy for more than one person at a time, in different volumes - it’s not a one in one out system.

JacquesHammer · 12/01/2019 10:29

Really! I'm not being arsey about it. I just don't see why sport should be in the TV news with all the other, er, actual news

Multi-million pound industries interesting millions of people nationally. It pretty much is, er, actual news.

Mookatron · 12/01/2019 10:35

I disagree JacquesHammer. Like the OP I just don't think a sportsman retiring is as nationally significant as a huge car plant laying people off. I feel sorry for both. But one is clearly more nationally significant than the other.

JacquesHammer · 12/01/2019 10:39

But one is clearly more nationally significant than the other

Which is why one was leading story on the day it happened, and the other was leading story on the day after, when it happened.

Mookatron · 12/01/2019 10:43

I'm not interested in getting into an argument about this with you JacquesHammer you can by all means think you've won this one. I still don't think sport should be a regular slot on TV news programmes though, given equal or higher position as political events or other events that affect daily life.

Helmetbymidnight · 12/01/2019 10:46

Half the country had made it v clear they don’t care about job losses. Other things are much more important.

JacquesHammer · 12/01/2019 10:47

I'm not interested in getting into an argument about this with you JacquesHammer you can by all means think you've won this one. I still don't think sport should be a regular slot on TV news programmes though, given equal or higher position as political events or other events that affect daily life

“I’m not interested in getting into an argument but....” eh?

Grin
Mookatron · 12/01/2019 10:54

Hee hee! Wink

BitOutOfPractice · 12/01/2019 10:56

It’s not a competition!

HRTpatch · 12/01/2019 10:57

Don't be ridiculous

EerieSilence · 12/01/2019 11:00

Two completely different things.
The JLR redundancies could have been foreseen for a very long time. They may be the news talk but not surprising.
Brexit also helped things move forward. Bet many JLR employees voted for Brexit to get rid of the pesky cheap foreigners stealing their jobs.

kateandme · 12/01/2019 11:05

This is his job.life career.this isn't his choice.bu
t still it's not compatible anyway.

MorningRichie · 12/01/2019 11:10

If JLR employees could build a reliable car, they'd maybe sell enough to keep the factories productive. I've spent years in the motor trade and a Land Rover's natural environment is indeed off-road. Off the road and in the workshop.

ForalltheSaints · 12/01/2019 11:13

I do not feel aggrieved about the coverage, but understand why the Land Rover story should be viewed as more important. It may be 20 years since I was last made redundant, but I do recall how bad this can be.