We realised a few days ago that we had mice in the loft (we could hear scurrying in the loft and found a dead mouse and other 'mice' signs). I'm aware that it needed resolving and wanted to look into humane ways to manage the problem, whereas DH just wanted to get a pest controller out to put poison down (disclaimer I'm a softie vegetarian, DH is not). I came home from work half an hour ago and DH admitted he had called out a pest controller today to put poison down whilst I was at work. He deliberately didn't tell me he was going to do this as he knew I would object. I know we needed to deal with the issue but I'm pretty pissed off he disrespected my feelings on the issue and went ahead and did it behind my back. AIBU? Or should I just accept that it needed doing?