I genuinely don't know if I'm being a bit too quick to react here. For reference - I had to have a TFMR at 20 weeks last year due to a serious defect. It was a horrible time, all family members know about it and I still don't have any children despite being pregnant twice.
Out for a coffee with a family member and during chat I made a comment that I needed to finish taking the decorations down today as we've been ill in our house and were behind.
She was a bit shocked and said it was really bad luck to leave them up past the 5th and wasn't I worried about that sort of thing.
I was a bit surprised as I didn't realise she was superstitious so I made a joke about how we ended up leaving our [white] fairy lights up over the fireplace last year as they looked cosy, so we kept them up all year, and the sky didn't fall in.
She then said flippantly 'well you did have a that thing with the pregnancy - I would say that was bad luck, if it was me I wouldn't chance it!'
I don't know if I'm being oversensitive but it really seemed like she was saying I could have caused that 'bad luck' by leaving those lights up? Even though I know that's insane and would have had NO impact at all, the more I mull it over, the more I think it was a really horrible thing to say.