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FauxJoMalaux · 05/01/2019 23:54

It’s early days here. Could go either way but I’m not sure either of us are inclined to work to save it. No one else involved as far as I am aware.

We’ve not been married long and have one DC - early years school.

How do I prepare? What do I need to focus on? I suspect once MIL hears it will become nasty. I want to keep it as friendly as possible.

Am petrified about finances. I work full time on a good wage but not sure I can afford to take on our home. This area is also a bit blurry as when we met I had my own place but sold that and then we got a joint mortgage using my equity as a deposit. This I feel sick about.

I think I will be fine but not sure what I should be doing or not doing.

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LittleCandle · 06/01/2019 00:00

Get all bank statements. Open a separate account for yourself if you don't already have one. Get a lawyer!

I'm sorry you are in this position. Its tough, but you will get through it, I promise.

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