I’m actually raging, DS birthday he has friend over, suppose to be getting a takeaway (kfc). The plan was for DP and my sister to get it whilst I stay at home with the kids, time to go, sister is complaining as she was in the middle of a game despite knowing the time arranged. They both leave, no less than 2 minutes later they are back in the house with DP refusing to go because Dsis (14) was being moody, he then starts blaming me, and saying he wasn’t going etc. Then said he was only getting it for DS and his friend and no one else. I said that wasn’t fair on dd. They’ve finally gone as both got out of thier funk.. I’m literally raging, steam coming out of my ears raging 😤 that for the 3rd year in a row he’s started an argument on DS birthday, luckily DS and friend are in room with door shut so didn’t hear it. Aibu to think it’s ds birthday and not to start an argument over nothing? I know he’s been ill with a chest infection, which is better now. that doesn’t excuse Dickinson behaviour. So pissed right now and having to save face for DS, he has asd aswell so hates any argument.