An ex screenshotted photos of other girls

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So this was about 3 years ago but I listened to a podcast (tasteless gentlemen) where guys say they all did it. They call screenshotted photos of their girlfriends friends!

Surely this isn't every guy right? Or is it common?

Did it mean he found my friends/other girls better and I'm really that bad?

I got rid of him as soon as I seen this. He had them saved to folders of their age, all younger and most much younger than myself.

He justified it as but I have an album purely of you.

Worse part is about a year ago i was in it came up he screenshotted it 🤢

And to add it totally destroyed my self esteem in general and even to this day I compare myself to my friends, wondering if they dress better or are just much better than myself.

I never trust a guy is interested in me even though when im out with my friends in a club setting guys come to me first then my friends. I feel it's a drunk thing they come to me first since I'm blonde. But the girl he screenshotted most of all her boyfriends had spoken to me first. (This is in no way trying to put her down by saying that, it's just what happened I told and I was a good friend and always told her) I have no trust in men do they just go for all and hope one comes back 😓 or do I just know yucky guys