AIBU or just paranoid?

[ParanoidorDoomed]

My friend fancies my husband, I know this because she told me. I think my husband fancies her too.
The last few parties we've been at together it's like my husband has forgotten I'm there and spends most of his time with her, talking and dancing. They message each music they like, etc.
I have told him how I feel but he said I'm being stupid. When I asked if he fancied her too he just ignored me. I don't know what to do?

Completely agree with @Beelzebop - stay strong Op & stick to your guns. Don't let him away with this behaviour.

Just spoke to dh. He reckons he would have stopped talking to her when you first mentioned it, as he would have felt odd about it. I pointed out that we had a less serious but similar situation long ago and he had done what your dh has. He said he was young and foolish then, as well as very drunk. Which is all true.

You called him out, now he is embarassed and onviously trying to make you look daft! Keep strong OP! Have the convo with ypur friend as well. Let her know she is crossing boundries 🌷

My friend has a thing for my DP. She makes really dodgy comments and comments about how good he looks and sexual comments about him. He hates it and finds it embarrassing and uncomfortable not at all flattering . He has taken to avoiding if possible.

Have you had another chat OP?

It’s so disrespectful to you. My dh would never behave like that nor would any of my friends husbands either.

We've spoken again. This time was much better. After sulking off to his friends house, who is married to my best friend, and having a conversation with him.
He said he couldn't see any wrong it what he was doing because he would never be interested in anyone else. But after telling his friend why he was sulking and him then telling him he was actually out of order he's now seen it from my side.
He's apologised to me and promised that nothing like this will ever happen again because he loves me and our life together.
He has blocked her from everything and said if she is at any social events where we are then he will avoid her.
She has yet to reply to me.

Sounds promising ❤️ Glad someone opened his eyes 🌷

That's such a lovely update. So pleased for you.

Well done DH for seeing sense (but shame it took a third party to open his eyes!)

Well don OP. He knows now you're not a soft touch and won't accept his behaviour.

What was your last message to 'friend'?

Glad he's finally seen sense Op, regardless of how he got there!

Sounds good but shame it took someone else to open his eyes!

she's yet to reply to me

What did you say to her?