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To want a man with a full head of hair? Silver foxes welcome.

22 replies

dottycottton · 23/12/2018 00:03

I've heard men age like wine, is it too much to ask for a man with a full head of hair?

I am going to start dating in 2019. I am late 30's, I worked hard for the last 5 or so years, getting fit, mentally and otherwise to be ready to go back out into the dating market. Men want a lot from us, is it too much to ask for some sexy ass hair?

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sahknowme · 23/12/2018 00:04

Never really been a fan of ass hair.

dottycottton · 23/12/2018 00:05

if they're gonna have ass hair, it's gotta be sexy

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Singlenotsingle · 23/12/2018 00:05

Mine's got a full head of white hair. He has to get it cut every 4 weeks. Baldies don't do anything for me! Go for what you want!

Weirdlookingbricks · 23/12/2018 00:06

I had my ass hair waxed. Did I do the wrong thing then? If it's sexy now? All that ouchy for nothingSad

Singlenotsingle · 23/12/2018 00:06

Don't know about his ass though. I haven't looked!

PersonaNonGarter · 23/12/2018 00:07

It is fine to prefer one thing to another. It is a bit shallow though, so you might be overlooking some crackers who could make you laugh and be great company.

HTKS · 23/12/2018 00:08

I’ve always liked baldies but only if they embrace it and go the full shave. My dad and brother were both bald by their late teens but have just owned it (hello Freud!)

DH is 38 and still thick full head and no gray.... does this bode well for silver fox in the future?

MassiveCockSilverFox · 23/12/2018 00:08
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MsLucyLastic · 23/12/2018 00:09

I am early 40s and DP is early 60s with a full head of hair. I can definitely recommend dating an older guy.

Sexy, confident, comfortable in himself, adores woman and hates misogyny. And 20 years more experience in the bedroom.

Wish I had realised the appeal of older men much earlier to be honest!

Weirdlookingbricks · 23/12/2018 00:11

Oh and mine was mid 50s with a full head of hair. Cheating bastard as it turns out. Just go for an all round decent bloke. They can no more help their hair loss than we can help our breast size or whatever.

Gudgyx · 23/12/2018 00:11

Yabvu. Bald men are awesome. I love bald men. The rock, Jason statham, Vin diesel, Bruce Willis, Shemar Moore, Tyrese Gibson. And my DP.

I love bald men.

Also thought I’d have a few baileys while I wrapped earlier, haven’t drank alcohol since August, now it’s after midnight I’m almost a bottle down and very tipsy. And my DP doesn’t come home from working away until tomorrow, and right now I reallllllly love bald men.

As you were. Yes, unreasonable, very.

Crunched · 23/12/2018 00:12

Have you seen Jason Statham? You don’t need hair to be sexy...

thighofrelief · 23/12/2018 00:13

I do struggle with bald but if otherwise really great, meh, fine by me. I'm helpless when presented with a man with lovely thick, blonde hair though.

My adult DS asked why on earth I had married his father, three words - lovely blonde hair. I'm an idiot, I'll say it for you.

Amanduh · 23/12/2018 00:22

Yanbu to prefer hair, yabu to be rude about others (i know you weren’t, but lots are and if the tables were turned for women and pixie cuts and a man saying he wanted a woman with long hair there would be OUTRAGE!!)
I do LOVE a close shaved head mysef though.
Also mmmmmn Jason Statham.

HTKS · 23/12/2018 00:23

@thighofrelief you haven’t married Bojo have you Xmas Shock

dottycottton · 23/12/2018 00:25

ahaha I don't mean to hate on baldies, there are a few I think are handsome too but I just love that full head of hair more :( I do understand, you cannot have everything... There's my DD friends single dad who has such a head of hair but strange fashion taste... tight jeans and new balance trainers for example, I think if it's not one thing its another!

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Butchyrestingface · 23/12/2018 00:25

I've heard men age like wine, is it too much to ask for a man with a full head of hair?

How do you suggest they overcome androgenic alopecia? I'm sure they'd be happy to oblige once you tell them the cure.

dottycottton · 23/12/2018 00:30

How do you suggest they overcome androgenic alopecia? I'm sure they'd be happy to oblige once you tell them the cur

Obviously, a very serious thread where this will happen Hmm

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Butchyrestingface · 23/12/2018 00:33

Obviously, a very serious thread where this will happen hmm

Well, you'll have a much larger pool to select from if you do. Either that or date younger. Much younger. Grin

dottycottton · 23/12/2018 00:35

Well, you'll have a much larger pool to select from if you do. Either that or date younger. Much younger. grin

wth! have i been ripped off, I heard men age slower than women!!!

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CardsforKittens · 23/12/2018 00:37

Bald is beautiful. YABVVU.
And ass hair is always sexy.

thighofrelief · 23/12/2018 01:24

HTKS i love BoJo's hair!

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