To want my partner to contact me ??

[DizzyBeeme]

Ok..I'm in a fairly new relationship..about 3 months. He lives about 40 mins away and we make a n effort to see each other at least twice a week and call/txt every day. The last I heard from him was on Tuesday...then a txt on Thursday to say I'm busy..and then nothing. Am I right to be upset? I've called..messaged..but his phone is either switched off or he won't answer. I'm at my wits end and have a good kind to tell him I'm done !! Should I wait and see if he gets back in touch..or take it that I've been ghosted. Thanks x

Who was the 35 year old husband that lived with you in your house in March 2018 then? That you were thinking about buying another house with?

This is all very confusing.

So if I'm correct, you divorced in 2016 and your husband remarried 4 years earlier in 2012, but then was living with you and your 4 children in 2018. And you started a new relationship on 17th November before he ghosted you after 3 months on 22nd December, returning a day later and proposing to you despite never meeting the 4 children he was going to become a stepfather to. Have I missed anything? A Delorean car or a blue phone box perhaps?

And 2 of the 4 children were conceived after he remarried in 2012.

How could he legally remarry in 2012 yet not be divorced until 2016? Unless it was a religious ceremony with no legal standing I guess.

Otherwise that's bigamy surely?

It was a religious ceremony in.pakistan with no legal standing here. This thread was about my current partner not my ex husband and some of the replies are very rude.

But then how was he living with you in 2018, planning to train as a maths teacher and buy a bigger house with you, with 2 children born since his new marriage?

If that was true and then since then you've had 2 more relationships maybe you should step back from dating and have a look at your boundaries.