@ExcitedForChristmas18
I clicked on the title of "£10 Christmas Bonus" and then was surprised (please note that says surprised NOT resentful!!) That this is something the DWP do because of the utter horror stories you read about how the disabled and those who care for them are treated.
Yes I did comment that it made me feel like shit as in sad that there's not similar for people also in horrible situations, like mine. I also qualified that with saying I don't resent those who are getting it because I don't. However others seem to have not wanted to acknowledge that bit, or the repeated bits I've posted about not being resentful - I have continued posting to defend myself at being jumped all over for something I didn't actually say and don't feel.
Other posters have said things like being penalised for working because they don't get this, and similar, but yet it's me that's being continually targeted. As my original message was obviously lost in translation as it were, I tried to further explain and then repeat the fact I didn't say what I'm being judged for. It seems to no avail though doesn't it because I'm still being accused of being resentful.
It seems I'm not allowed to feel unhappy that I don't get a little bit of acknowledgement in tough circumstances - that doesn't make me resentful to those who do though, that's just been added by others.
This had all developed from other posters jumping on me for my post. I have just defended my original post trying to get across I didn't, haven't and don't resent anything.
For the henious crime of saying that, on an open forum, I am apparently resentful to disabled people getting a tenner, rude, obnoxious and was offered erm, assistance to feel what it's like to be disabled.
You know I've been roasted once before for getting a 'free house' (social housing) and 'free money' (tax credits to this level of nastiness- despite working. And why? Because I recieve benefits.
It's utterly bizarre that I've now been roasted for feeling sad that I don't recieve a bit more help when I need it by people who by their very nature advocate help where it's needed - and why? Because I work.
Thank you to those who are suggesting help, I am going from what I was told by a benefit advisor about 18 months ago, but with all the changes, UC, cuts and people far worse than me refused, and the benefits advice I got, I didn't think I could apply for PIP - yes maybe it's worth looking into. So thank you for that.
I'm going now because I really didn't want this to turn out this way, and it would seem minds have been made up - even though not one of my posts says I resent the people getting this payment.