Because nine honey or daily mail published one of your mumsnet questions? For example whinging about your husband with details and then husband reads it on the news website? I torally understand that once you put it on the net its there to travel around like a leaf in the breeze and there is squat you can do about it but it kinda sux now that we dont have a safe forum to ask questions, vent and find support online especially if ypu dont have any of that irl