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to be f***ing sick of it?

113 replies

Mich0027 · 10/12/2018 18:40

Fking sick of working all day, coming home, doing chores, being tired, paying bills, moaning, repeat repeat repeat ARGHHHHH
No point to this post but is anyone else f
king sick of it too?
Stop the world I want to get off

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HollyBollyBooBoo · 10/12/2018 18:42

Yep!

TheGreenDot · 10/12/2018 18:43

Ground hog day here.
I hate it.
Love the kids but same stuff all day every day. But saying that I’ve been a stay home mum for three years and any changes now freak me out.
I’m stuck.

Mich0027 · 10/12/2018 18:49

@TheGreenDot yes I feel stuck too and some days I can't stand the thought of another blah number of years of the same old shite.
Hmph. Time to make a 'thankful list' and shove it up my arse 🤣

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Ouchymother · 10/12/2018 18:53

Yes definitely. I started loom knitting at night when DS goes to bed and DH has his epic long baths. Rather that than pottering clearing up mess. Unfortunately my job is literally the same every single day so not any diversity there either. And home life is the same. I also started getting those simply cook kits to try something different for dinners rather than the same 'set menu' I was doing every week.
Christmas soon. Hopefully that gives some variety!

ALemonyPea · 10/12/2018 18:56

If you're going to swear, just fucking swear. It's not censored on this site.

I think the monotony gets worse when the nights get darker, I'm ready for bed by 7.

TheGreenDot · 10/12/2018 19:04

Oh I try and list what I’m grateful for ever night but it’s a short list at the moment.

Dark evenings don’t help. No interesting hobbies at moment due to young kids. 🙄

hidinginthenightgarden · 10/12/2018 19:07

I had this too. It was getting so bad until we joined a gym with a kids club. It is expensive but really helps break up the monotony that is life!

Mich0027 · 10/12/2018 19:44

@ALemonyPea oh I didn't know swearing was allowed. I feel so much bastarding better now!
I absolutely think the dark nights don't help. Same every fucking boring year 😩

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TinaTurnipp · 10/12/2018 19:54

Yes yes yes and yes.

Although I do love a good moan.

Mich0027 · 10/12/2018 20:00

@TinaTurnipp go on give us your best rant .....

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TinaTurnipp · 10/12/2018 20:10

Well if you'd like to know how my Monday morning began...

One of the step kids is poorly (poor lad) so I was awoken to vomit all over our carpet at around 6am. The stuff was everywhere. Sorry if you're eating your tea right now.

So there I was cleaning up a 9 year olds tea from the night before off my carpet when I decided to get my new carpet cleaner out.

All was well until I went to take out the dirty water, accidentally clicked the button whilst pulling out the compartment and tipped vomit water all over the freshly cleaned carpet and myself. Fucking vomit water. It is not the kind of shower I'm used to having of a morning.

Who doesn't want to start their rainy fucking miserable Monday morning covered in sick...

Alexandra2018 · 10/12/2018 20:10

I'm absolutely exhausted! Day in and day out!

Jinglesplodge · 10/12/2018 20:12

YES. Utterly fed up now. 10 month old is waking every hour all night and my 4 year old is behaving badly in the daytime, probably because his mum is so bloody tired and grumpy. I feel like I spend my whole life trying to get the baby to sleep or trying to stop the big one being silly. My house is a mess, I'm shattered, and I generally feel totally out of control.

MrsAJ27 · 10/12/2018 20:17

So fucking over this month and this year! Woke up with a migraine and thought fuck this shit I am done...so called in sick and went back 2 bed...it was the best thing I could of done for myself and everyone around me!

I hope everyone has a better day 2mrw 😙

Purplehairdontcare · 10/12/2018 20:21

Yep I feel much the same a lot of the time.

What helps me is booking the n things to 'look forward to'.

So could be a day out with the kids or a project in the house.

Itsjeremycorbynsfault · 10/12/2018 20:22

Definitely!

Work work work kids bills messy house more bills more mess ahhh

Never five minutes peace

VioletCharlotte · 10/12/2018 20:23

Can I join? I'm trying so hard not to moan and complain irl, as I don't want to drag everyone else down. But I am SO sick of everything right now. Sick of getting up at 6am and driving to work in the pissing dark and rain. Sick of traffic and taking over an hour to do what should be a 30 minute journey. Sick of people at work taking the piss. Sick of having no money. Sick of UTIs. Sick of toothache. Sick of never being able to drink as it gives me migraines. Sick of bloody Brexit. And totally sick of Christmas!!

whifflesqueak · 10/12/2018 20:28

Ugh I know the feeling.

I work evenings so finish around 12:00/1am. Then home for 5 or so hours broken sleep before the children wake up. Inevitable morning chaos and then a day of chores, entertaining the youngest, being exhausted and snappy and feeling guilty... then back to work again at 5pm.

I feel like i’m not doing a good job at any of my roles. Mum, wife, employee...

I used to be pretty sure there was a life to lived somewhere out there for me. Now i’m not so sure.

whifflesqueak · 10/12/2018 20:28

Yes violet! The toothache! It’s a sick joke.

WTFIsAGleepglorp · 10/12/2018 20:30

Our council has switched to alternating bin collections.

Instead of rubbish every week, then every other week collect the recycling as well, they've switch to rubbish collection one week and recycling collection the next.

There had been a none too popular 'slops' bucket where food waste was processed for compost but that's been stopped for months.

The bin men are strict and won't collect bins where the lids won't go down or extra bin bags.

It's recycling tomorrow and rubbish next week.

I've come home to find my rubbish bin, filled to overflowing with dense, stinking bin bags and 'presented', with the handle sticking out, ready for collection.

On trying to move it, I almost caused myself an injury.

The bin is so heavy, it may be rejected by the bin men next week.

Now, I had a completely empty bin this morning, when I went to work.

I freeze my food waste until the night before, my recycling is as clean as my washing up and I throw away as little as possible.

Sometimes as little as one bin bag a month.

I live by myself and I am making a concerted effort to be 'cleaner and greener'.

This is not the first time this has happened.

For the second time in less than a month, I've been unable to throw my rubbish in my bin.

The houses are terraced, with no front gardens, so anyone walking along the pavement can 'help themselves'.

The odd cigarette packet, can or other litter is not a problem, but this is on another scale all together.

I am fuming and I have complained to my local councillor and to my council.

Aside from taking the bins inside the house, I've got no way of preventing this from happening again.

I am fucking furious.

ohhelpohnoitsa · 10/12/2018 20:33

Interesting, I feel the same. Maybe we have SAD. I am so fed up and I am usually Little Miss Happy. You have all summed up how I have been feeling for 2 weeks. Add in an unusual dose of PMT and I am with you.

MumUndone · 10/12/2018 20:34

Yes, I often, often feel like this. Different day, same old shit. Definitely helps to book stuff in to add variety, otherwise - dullsville.

loubluee · 10/12/2018 20:38

Woke up slightly tired after 2 hours sleep, done my back in falling over bags to
go to the tip, then trying to reach my morphine off the top of the fridge feeezer knocked the iron off and it smashed on the floor. Spent the day in agony, gulping morphine and recognising the signs that my mood was going up (bipolar), so am about to take some anti psychotics in the hope I can sleep and prevent a manic episode. All whilst feeling sick with the pain from my back and probably the bloody morphine.
I want my normal life back. (On the plus side kids have been ace, they are teen/young man so fend for themselves)

MumUndone · 10/12/2018 20:38

Glorp - I believe one can buy a bin lock. Worth a try? Or else hide in the bin and jump out when someone opens the lid.

NameChanger22 · 10/12/2018 20:39

Can't we all club together and buy an island? Somewhere warmer.

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