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Firsttimer1234 · 09/12/2018 06:07

DH went in a football night out last night. I've always been totally uninterested in his nights out and he can do as he pleases. 100% trust and no issues. I'm happy at home with strictly and red wine.
He text me at nine to say they were In This certain bar. I went to bed pretty soon after. I'd had a shitty day with DS (6months) teething hell and I had a really bad cold. I couldn't settle, a mixture of a banging head and DH not being in. Anyway, he text me at at 12.15, waking me up, saying he was getting in a taxi. He was in our local town 10 mins away. So I got up and made him a cup of tea and came back to bed. He never came home until 1.45 and I saw it was his mum dropping him off. So a 15 min journey took 1. 5 hours. Why text and say he was getting in a taxi? He said he'd been waiting for a taxi since 11.30 but I've seen this mornine he was tagged in a club after that time. Why has he lied? He knows I don't care if he gets in at 11.00 or 7.00 am. Am I just reading too much Into it!? I think I'm annoyed because he woke me and DS up coming in, was up and down to the toilet all night. DS woke up at 5 and DH promised he'd get up today because I've got up everyday this week stupidly early with him. In the end he just laid there and I ended up getting up.

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Northernlass69 · 09/12/2018 06:10

Sounds like they were all wasted. Was there a pic of him in the club or just his name tagged? He probably wasn't even there.

Northernlass69 · 09/12/2018 06:12

This afternoon do a swap with him and you have a relax. Don't expect anything this morning and try not to row over it. It could be your turn next bitter experience

Theducksarenotmyfriends · 09/12/2018 06:13

Am totally missing the point but why did you get up and make him a cup of tea? And who even wants a cup of tea at midnight anyway? It's got caffeine in!

MarthasGinYard · 09/12/2018 06:16

'Am totally missing the point but why did you get up and make him a cup of tea? '

Quite

Weenurse · 09/12/2018 06:18

Make him do he night shift and early morning tomorrow.
I am sure there is a reasonable explanation.

Firsttimer1234 · 09/12/2018 06:24

Tea addict and always, always, always has a cup of tea before bed and will always have tea and a banana when he comes in from drinking doesn't matter how drunk or late it is

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