Sorry about the title.... long story short my mum has been told her cancer has grown and they won't be offering anymore chemo. I had a phone call off my brother asking what time we will be serving Christmas dinner, (for the last 7 years he has gone to his in laws for dinner) because he want to bring my nephew over to see her...I live up north so will be travelling miles to see her! Aibu to think he should come over to my mum's for Xmas dinner instead of his in laws! He wants us to serve dinner early so they can get my nephew home for bed!