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Beckymad1 · 08/12/2018 14:56

Posting here for traffic.

I've been kicked out of my house (mums house) after an argument with her boyfriend.

I have nowhere to go.... does anyone know any place I can call for a room?

I havent got much money so a hotel isn't really an option

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Toughtips · 08/12/2018 14:57

How old are you? Any friends or family to put you up for a night until its calmed down?

Beckymad1 · 08/12/2018 14:57

I'm 23. I can't go anywhere, I can't ever go back to my mums so I really don't know what to do

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mummmy2017 · 08/12/2018 14:59

You must have a friend who will help.

knittedjest · 08/12/2018 15:00

Calm down. It feels like the end of the world right now but it isn't. Your mother will get over it. Is there somewhere near you that is open 24/7 that you could go and sit for the moment out of the cold while you sort this out? Local library perhaps?

explodingkittensexpansion · 08/12/2018 15:00

Friend
Family
Hotel
Car

Hezz · 08/12/2018 15:01

Any other family?

blackcat86 · 08/12/2018 15:01

Friend/family/hostel?

LIZS · 08/12/2018 15:01

Hostel, ymca?

Beckymad1 · 08/12/2018 15:02

I'm in my car at the moment with all my stuff.

I stayed at my boyfriends last night but we've just had an argument and he's told me I'm somebody else's problem.

Looks like a night in my car then!

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mummmy2017 · 08/12/2018 15:05

Do you not have family?

MynameisJune · 08/12/2018 15:06

Seeing as you have service and 4G, can you google local hostels? You don’t have any friends/aunts/uncles/cousins you can call on? What about your Dad if he is around. Any siblings.

knittedjest · 08/12/2018 15:06

Honestly, leave it a few hours and call your mum later on and have a mature conversation with her. Apologize, listen and don't argue. A mum who is still letting you live with her at 23 is not going to throw you out on your ass with nowhere to go over a fight with her boyfriend.

mummmy2017 · 08/12/2018 15:07

Council will help you on Monday as your homeless.
Go to the police station and talk too them, they know phone numbers of help.

AlexisCubadgee · 08/12/2018 15:09

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YepImafraidIchangeditagain · 08/12/2018 15:10

Eh Alexis?

AntMoon · 08/12/2018 15:11

I've been where you are. Things will get better, I promise.

Do you have a friend you can stay with until you can go to the council on Monday and tell them you are unintentionally homeless?

InsomniacAnonymous · 08/12/2018 15:11

YepImafraidIchangeditagain It's spam. I've reported it.

Beckymad1 · 08/12/2018 15:12

No, I don't have any family.

I haven't spoken to my dad since I was 7 due to him disowning me.

Thank you for all the links x

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InsomniacAnonymous · 08/12/2018 15:14

Why are you rowing with everyone to the extent they want nothing more to do with you? You're not in a strong enough position to burn all your bridges like that. Do you work?

DerelictWreck · 08/12/2018 15:15

Not now Alexis!

YepImafraidIchangeditagain · 08/12/2018 15:15

Thanks insomniac

Cadburyssurpriseegg · 08/12/2018 15:16

Council have out of hours numbers you can call for more information as to where you can go.

steff13 · 08/12/2018 15:17

Have you posted about difficulty with your mom before?

When did you and your boyfriend fight about? Can you talk it over? If he cares about you certainly he wouldn't want you on the street.

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