Since August mine and my hubby's marriage has been rocky due to his attitude and so on. The last 2 months have been good as we've started to work with each other to make things happy between us again. My husbands family have started to make me think that my marriage was rocky because of me seeing my friends too much! Now I'm a little bit annoyed about this because I plan seeing my best friend when I know hubby's at work and then when he's not at work I spend time with him at home. I will go to my best friends house once a month for a Girly night in but that's it. I have asked hubby if it bothers him me going round once a month and he said no and told me not to be silly. I'm now worried about his family because next year me and my best mate are going for an 80s weekend for my birthday and a cruise in August. I wasnt going to go to either but hubby told me go and enjoy myself as I never had the chance to do these kinds of things before I had the kids as I had my first at 18, which was my choice. He's annoyed at his family also because they are basically saying I can't see my friends. So am I being selfish by seeing my best friend, are the in laws right?