Family upset me

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josie231976 · 05/12/2018 22:05

AIBU to expect my family to behave?
My husband is a kind thoughful person but after some stress isnt managing very well. Im supporting him but my mum and sister keep slagging him off to me... its really annoying.
Btw my mum lives with us and my sister and mum are both more hassle than its worth to question their actions

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girlie123 · 05/12/2018 22:48

Sounds like a horrible situation tbh with you.
I'd be inclined to tell your mum if she says one more thing then she can go and love your sister and leave you and your husband to it - he doesn't need that kind of negativity when he is kind enougj to have her living in his home!
She obviously doesn't like so stick up for him
Good luck!

girlie123 · 05/12/2018 22:48

*live not love lol

Iwantplaits · 05/12/2018 22:51

What happens when you tell them to shut up?

Aquamarine1029 · 05/12/2018 22:55

Tell you mother to pack her bags and get the fuck out. The fact that you are tolerating her slagging off your husband in Is own home is shocking.

Maelstrop · 05/12/2018 22:57

Whose house is it?

WhenISnappedAndFarted · 05/12/2018 22:58

Tell your Mum to go and live with your sister.

Then, you'll have a nice peaceful house and can support your partner.

NerrSnerr · 05/12/2018 22:59

Is it your house or your mums?

If living with her is causing stress then you need to find a way not to live with her.

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josie231976 · 05/12/2018 23:21

She became ill 8 years ago its a joint owned house.
If i upset them.theres an atmosphere i have 2 kids with autism i dont need an atmosphere.
They are controlling and i feel unable to cause a shit storm but in the meantime im getting angry and have no way of expressing this....

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Blondebakingmumma · 05/12/2018 23:24

Sounds like living together isn’t working.

Patriciathestripper1 · 05/12/2018 23:51

Stand up for your husband! Tell her if she keeps making it difficult you will put her in a home. That should shut her up

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