im so disappointed

[marcusgirl]

ive been with my OH for 5 years. its his work xmas party soon he said im invited. I asked when it was the other day he said oh its the 20th but your not invited. He went on to say its because there are 40 people going and its in an outside shed so there isnt enough room for you. I feel so disappointed i know im being silly but its really upset me. It feels like i was invited but now im not.

Good for you OP, taking back control of your life is incredibly empowering. You can look towards a future where you can go out when you want, with who you want and not have him lurking in the background monitoring you. Plus no more having to listen to his lies. I know it's hard but this is the 1st step towards a brighter and happier future. & for you.

Thank u

I think it was probably decided at work that there would be no plus ones. When he first mentioned it to you, the decision hadn't been made or he didn't notice.

It's quite usual in some places for work do's of this type to be only for employees, nothing personal. I never took my husband to one, nor he to me except one firm where people went to a restaurant and could bring someone.