To wear a great bra?

[LazyDaisy87]

I'm in the early stages of a new relationship with a wonderful man who I am very attracted to. I found an amazing bra in my drawer that makes my boobs look great - much bigger than they really are. Think wonderbra but not that. Is it going to be a problem when we get to the naked stage and he realises he was duped? Or don't men care by then. I'm naturally a C cup but this bra makes me look like an E with great cleavage!! (1st world problem).

Wear it. If he’s a decent person he won’t care.
If it makes you feel good, it’s all good.

Thanks Santasushi, I'll keep wearing it. I think if it gets to the naked stage he won't complain too much!

Wear it and, more importantly, enjoy it; nobody's being duped.

Enjoy

I have a pair of Es, they don’t look cleavagy and nice without a bra - most boobs don’t look like they do in a bra, do they? So I don’t see how a little padding is any more of a “lie”.

I think it's more than fine. Pretty much all boobs look "better" in a bra that without one - it's not duping to anyone to wear a bra. Nor is wearing make up, dying your hair, wearing a flattering pair of jeans or whatever.

YABU not to tell us what make the bra is though

I am an 'F' cup, but only a 30 band so even though they sound big they aren't. Quite frankly once he got his hands on them for the first time my DP was just delighted to be naked with me that he didn't care.

Go for it, I wear one and call it false advertising and like other pp have said, once naked they won't care... Well my DP has never mentioned it!

It's an M&S push up bra. It seems to have masses of padding and it pushes my boobs together to give a great cleavage. I will continue to wear it!