To not want my MIL to get ready with me at my wedding?

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Speaking to DP auntie today who asked me if my MIL (her sister) was getting her hair and make up done along with me, my bridesmaids, flower girls and mum...

I said that I never really thought about it. I’ve not heard of a grooms mum getting ready with the bride and we are getting married in the city we live in so not as if she wouldn’t be able to arrange it herself

She was then abit awkward with me saying I should ask her..

1. There are 9 people getting hair done and 6 getting make up done so it will be manic
2. She hasn’t even been excited about the wedding, never asks questions and when it’s brought up she looks extremely uninterested

Aibu to not have asked??

I trotted off to the hairdresser alone. Make up lady came to do moh, bridal party met at mine all done and got dressed together and I did my own in the peace and quiet of my room. Mum and mil organised themselves.
Mil should be with her son.