One SN child, friends who have always babysat both our DC so we could attend parents meetings etc.
DC2 in sports club, tournaments 4 times a year.
Last tournament I asked DH if he wanted to go. No, he did that one last year, and last year we alternated taking her.
Friends need someone to babysit. I offer. Then find out tournament 2 is on same day. No problem, should be able to get back to do it. Except she's been moved up groups and now finishes late.
Asked DH to take her (technically his turn anyway) and an taking DC1 baby sitting. He's done nothing but moan and now I'm getting annoyed texts. WIBU to ask him to take her. They should be home 1745.