DH and I have been married for 2 years, we also have a 10 month old ds.
Background: DH works full time 5 days, I work pt 2 days and 1 day from home (so 3 days all together) I do all the food shopping, meal prep, cleaning. Plus I'm the only one that drives so I do all the driving too, including taking him to work a 2 days a week. He does the bins/recycling and washes up most nights while I cook most nights
Yesterday I picked DH up from work, almost as soon as he got in DH asked what we were having for dinner - I replied beef noodles. He responded with 'oh not again, we have noodles a lot, I'm just not that into it.' I snapped that he can make his own bloody dinner then, and choose the meals and do the shopping from now on. We left it - have been moody with each other since.
He hurt my feelings and I want an apology. In my opinion this is not how you speak to someone who is making you dinner! I approached him this morning and said that I am still feeling sore about his comment, and that I would like an apology or some acknowledgement of wrong doing at least! He sulked... looked away and moodily mumbled 'SORRY.' and then said 'sorry we argued about noodles' with a smile on his face.
Wrong answer! Now I am even more pissed off, he has made light of hurting my feelings and made me feel like he doesn't give a shit.
I've just gone and dropped him and DS off at aldi with shopping list, bags and £1 for the trolley and left them there. He can do the bloody shopping for once. I've told him to text me when he's done and I'll pick him up.
AIBU?