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Ds friends drinking

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:32

Ds (16) is downstairs with his friends with 5 of his mates drinking spirits. Me and DH have been in bed for the past hour trying to sleep but they keep playing music they’ve made on something called band clamp ? And shouting. AIBU to go down and tell them to go the fuck to bed ?

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:33

Shitty music may I add but that’s just me Confused

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BuffaloCauliflower · 01/12/2018 01:34

Go down and tell them to turn the music off as it’s late and disrespectful to keep people up. You should have said this an hour ago.

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:35

BuffaloCauliflower DH has been down multiple times, he’s just told me they’re using cannabis on our roof, when I was young we would’ve done this miles away from home Angry

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vodkaredbullgirl · 01/12/2018 01:37

oh ffs

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:37

Would I be a tad unreasonable to ban them from our home again?

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vodkaredbullgirl · 01/12/2018 01:38

ask to join them

ItsANewDawn628 · 01/12/2018 01:41

Do the parents of the other boys know they are drinking and taking drugs at your home? I would be fuming if a dc was given access to these things at someone else's home and the responsible adults were aware.

That point aside, YADNBU!!! Send the lot of them to bloody bed! The cheek of it

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:41

vodkaredbullgirl sadly my stoner days are over, would rather a glass of wine and bake off in my evenings

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:44

ItsANewDawn628 parents are apparently aware and have even supplied drinks and drugs. Would be absolutely fuming with ds usually but don’t have the energy tonight

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BastardGoDarkly · 01/12/2018 01:45

They're smoking dope whole pissed on your roof

If this is real stop being a twat. Tell them to get in and go to sleep, or you're ringing their parents to come and get them.

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:47

BastardGoDarkly I have none of their parents contact details. I don’t have the heart to kick them out at this time of the night I just wish the twats would let us get to sleep and turn off that goddamn awful music

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 01:48

One fell asleep before 12 but the rest seem to have taken that as queue to go fucking mental.

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:10

Dh has come to hear them talking about ghosts and how they saw god on md....have never been more excited to wake up and kick teens out of mi casa Grin

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:17

Can hear microwave going, no doubt the mac & cheese I precooked for our lunch tomorrow Angry

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vodkaredbullgirl · 01/12/2018 02:18

lay off the wine lol

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:20

vodkaredbullgirl can assure no wine has been consumed by me tonight lol

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MrMeSeeks · 01/12/2018 02:31

Why are you or your dh not telling you child and his mates to go to bed or go home? Why are you allowing them to disrespect you like this?
I would never have even dreamt of doing this as an adult let alone a teen to my parents Confused

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:39

MrMeSeeks because the fuckers have tapped me to the chair -that is a joke before you shout troll- , I don’t have the energy to go down and shout at them and DH is fed up of going up and down. Was meant to be a birthday treat for ds but obviously didn’t go down much of a treat for us

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vodkaredbullgirl · 01/12/2018 02:43

Ground him and ban all of his friends from contact out of school lol

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:48

vodkaredbullgirl yeah no I think that’s the best option after this, they’re still going

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mymickeyisbetterthanyours · 01/12/2018 02:49

Just go and tell them. The time you've been posting on here it could've been sorted. Bloody hell.

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Pawprintjoy · 01/12/2018 02:50

You know what? My mickey is better than yours thanks Smile

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mymickeyisbetterthanyours · 01/12/2018 03:03

Well that's me told 😂