I know the answer is probably yes but..
My DH works away alot does very unpredictable shifts because he is a pilot
My Sister is having a party tomorrow afternoon for my step dad because he is 70 and yet again I have to go on my own because they have changed my other halfs shifts
I have asked him to go sick but he wont because he is on his notice period 4 months!!! he wont get paid sick
he is due to start a new job in sep taking him all over the world for 3 weeks away from home one week home and I just wanted to attend one social thing with him
I am cross I have to take the children 120 miles down the motorway and back without him yet again