DD spent 50 quid on my credit card.

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Fucking pissed off right now, DD(13) was on my computer which has my amazon account logged in, she decided that she could buy a a makeup item thats 50 quid. I didnt even realise until today, she had already opened it so i can`t even return it. FFS

@RedLife yes she does, DH can be very intimidating
@Maelstrop 14 is the legal age, im shure a few months off wont hurt
@worriedaf deinnitely not

Bold fail above ^^. The first paragraph is a quote.

Sorry OP. Did you say you will give her money, with which she can pay you back? What's the point of that? That leaves you back at square one!

Sorry OP. Did you say you will give her money, with which she can pay you back? What's the point of that? confused That leaves you back at square one!

Unless I'm totally misunderstanding this will pay the OP back, the DD has £50 less pocket money that she would have done so the OP gets her money back by not hvaing to pay the pocket money

Buy the same one from boots for £22.50 and return it to Amazon to get £25 back at least.

Looking at the grammar and punctuation on that amazon ad I wouldn’t be surprised if that wasn’t a fake tbh- which may be another way of getting your money back as they shouldn’t be selling counterfeit goods.

BanjoStarz Did you mean to say that you wouldn't be surprised if that was a fake? If it wasn't a fake it would be genuine.

Yes, sorry, was having a moment!

I’d be surprised if it was genuine, the description reads so badly.

I would be wanting to know what gave her the idea of doing this. Has she got any new friends who might have been influencing her?

I'm not kidding, I would have had the police round to talk to her, because this is fraud, surely?

That seller does look very dodgy, might be worth reporting it as a fake to see if you can get a refund

Is she into makeup or has this become a thing all of a sudden? Because that mixed with the new attitude changes might mean something else is going on.

I reckon the make up set is genuine. Someone's gone and bought a few of these from Boots and hiked the price up on Amazon.

Washing dishes for her aunt sounds like a perfect consequence

She will have known it was on offer at boots...but your card wasn't linked to boots so she bought it where she could. I'd have prob stomped on her phone in a rage that'll cost her about the same price to fix. But iabu!!

Take it off her and reclaim the £50.

Has she maybe tried to buy you a present or is she already using it

Nothing at all for Christmas. Not even the makeup set. Nothing.

Sitting there with nothing when everyone else is having a great time opening presents will make her realise what an ungrateful and selfish little shit she is.

I would give it to her for Christmas and nothing else.

Tell her that if she wanted it enough to steal from you then it is obviously an important enough present to be her whole Christmas gift.

And nothing else. Not even a selection box.

You’re being very nonchalant about this. Tbh it’s no surprise she’s turned out the way she has

wow! what she did is stealing. I hope you've made that clear to her, because she might not see it from that perspective if she was not willing to pay the money back. she's behaving like a brat.

Ummmm dodgy advert and dodgy link to match I smell odour de dodgy can I buy that via the link?

What dodgy link?

You seem very wishy-washy about this, OP.

I'd be worried about bullying or abuse - posh make up to make herself look older / sophisticated. I'd be trying to tackle that, and the attitude, and making her do chores to pay the money back.

Oh yes! How many sets of that make up set are left in that link? Could be a great sales pitch...erm? Nope!

So you're going to either get her a job, or give her more money to pay you with? plus, she's only doing it because of your DH - she has 0 respect for you.

Agree with pps - is have had no phone for a month or all of my makeup taken away from me.

Does she have bad self esteem? Only reason it would be OK (kind of) is if she was being bullied or thought she was ugly and thought the make up would help.