My good friend of 8 years moved away with work to a city that I have family in. I go there every few months to visit them.
I think out of the last 4 times we’ve arranged coffee she’s cancelled 3 times. It’s usually due to having work to do/ other commitments that can be managed if wanted.
My role is identical to hers but has more responsibility, so more take home work. So I understand the amount of work we have to do outside of office. Which is heavy but can be managed.
AIBU to be pissed off that she keeps cancelling, after agreeing a time that is convenient for her and even me being willing to go to her flat rather than meet out. We’ll arrange days or even weeks beforehand, usually followed by a night before text confirming,
and then on day of the event will get a text saying sorry I’m too busy with work.
I feel as if I re arrange stuff and work around her but she puts no effort in. 