I can't go into all the ins and outs... It's too long, but basically... a year ago, I made a joke on a FB page. There was a local woman's group called Ladies in Blackpool (changed name) and they all fell out. So, another group started called Blackpool Ladies. I thought it was all ridiculous and put up a Monty Python sketch (Judean People's Front/People's Front of Judea). The admin fell out with me. I left. The whole episode lasted five minutes (beteeen joining, taking the piss and leaving). Since then she is doing everything in her power to destroy me. She has sent messages to people who work for me to warn them of my "bad side". So... I sent a message to her asking if we could just put it all behind us and that I was sorry for the joke. I sent it to her husband though because she had blocked me. No reply. Then more messages come to me from other sources sent by her saying I drink (I probably have two drinks a YEAR) and have psychological issues and I'm a troll and a stalker and have been writing to her husband and that nothing to do with me can be put on her page (someone shared a post to her page that I had written about a lost dog). She took it down and explained that it was because she won't publicise me in any way. She is damaging my reputation. I live in a small community. She is very careful and never publishes comments. It's all done in private messages. But four people have told me about it... so how many people is she talking to and why??? I'm worried about my business and I'm worried that people will think I'm a drink, single mother with a baby. I feel vulnerable, sad, bullied. Can I do something? Should I ignore her? People who know me will know it's just not true... but the women love a bit of gossip around here. Those who haven't met me will form opinions. What would you do?