We have just had our first child and I am on maternity. I have a demanding job but only on minimum wage. Dp thinks I should return to work as this will set a good example for dc. I do not want to return to work. I think it's pointless me working just to pay someone else to look after dc (would have about 150-200 a month left) I want to wait until he is 3 get some free hrs and get a part time job. I tried to tell dp if dc is sick I still would have to pay for nursery but I will not get paid. I would rather be a sahm and not miss out on all the firsts aibu