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Late wedding

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Strawberryshortcake28 · 15/11/2018 00:15

I'm organising a wedding abroad next year my budget is around 10k for the full day and party back home

My issue is I've always dreamt of a beach wedding in the sun and I have found a stunning one which is absolutely gorgeous, for the ceremony, cars, dinner photographer drinks and entertainment it will cost me around 4K which is well within my budget .
The issue is though as it's a public beach we will not be able to have the ceremony until 6.30 pm to ensure privacy and we have the reception room until 4am

The other option is a hotel with a man made Beach which isn't as Nice but still lovely . They will allow me to rent this for the day and I can start at whatever time I want however it will cost me 7k for the same package

This is still within my budget but I'm only having 20 guests at my wedding which just seems like a lot of money for a small number and for the sake of 4 hours on the other hand they are making the effort to come all this way

Would you be happy as a guest in this situation? Have you ever been to a wedding that started at this time and is 7k expensive?

I was thinking of arranging drinks for them in a bar before they get picked up for an hour that way they could start earlier does this sound like a good idea ? Anyone who is attending is family so we all know each other and will be having dinners/ activities througout the week as well

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KC225 · 15/11/2018 01:20

Depending on where it is - are you likely to get gatecrashera/hawkers/hassled? That would be my only concern for the public beach.

I got married at 5 and then we had a photographs and then had an evening dinner. I think a drinks reception with canapes before hand would be nice, perhaps get one of the party to organise a wedding book, take some polaroids as they wait for the amin even in all their finery.

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