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To tell friend her boyfriend tried it on?

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pelli44 · 13/11/2018 22:02

A month ago I seen him on tinder.
I told friend,she said he was on but just looking.
Then he blocked her on his Facebook and said closed his account (he is still on Facebook )
Last Friday night on a night out he tried to kiss me.
I told friend and she said he was just joking and that is his personality.
Aibu to keep trying to warn her about him?
What more does she need to see he is a total creep?

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Bigonesmallone3 · 13/11/2018 22:03

Don't push otherwise she will push u away, uv warned her, she will soon find out the hard way

pelli44 · 13/11/2018 22:04

I ended up saying
"You know him better than me,if you trust him then that's good enough for me"

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Karwomannghia · 13/11/2018 22:06

I think If you care about your friendship I’d leave it now. You’ve told her and she’s in denial basically. I told my friend that her bf tried it on with me and he hounded her until she believed it was all my fault and then dumped me as a friend. She did see sense eventually and apologise!

pelli44 · 13/11/2018 22:07

It's so frustrating to see her being made a fool of.

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Karwomannghia · 13/11/2018 22:08

She’s obviously willing to turn a blind eye. She knows really.

Branleuse · 13/11/2018 22:08

Distance yourself.

Sethis · 13/11/2018 22:12

Send that exact list to her on a whatsapp message along with the tagline "This is me warning you, as a friend, about what your DP is doing. I'll shut up about it now, but this is your warning, given with love for you."

And then don't bring it up again. That way if shit happens later you can point directly to this message and shrug.

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