Ex wants my boys to meet boyfriend

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Hi 👋 so me and my ex split up in January but she has met a new guy online. He lives in Scotland and she live in Milton Keynes. He has come to stay this week and it’s the first time they have ever met. I agreed to look after the boys while he was down but 5 days in she’s demanding the boys meet him. I’ve said no and my older boy has said he’s not ready but she’s been really pushy about it. They only meet 5 days ago. Be interested what your opinions are

Like hell is he a bf after 5 days!!
Is she nuts??

I don’t agree it’s a good idea but I don’t think it’s up to you.

Can you have an adult conversation or are things acrimonious?

Not a chance would I want my kids around a stranger! I think you’re right to say no.

Absolutely no way. She barely knows the man. I think you are within your right to say no to this. What age are your DC?

I appreciate your response. I have 14 year old who was in tears because she called him to put pressure on him but yet the next day still wanted to persuade him to meet his even though he was in tears the night before. I also have a 6 year old