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To go against work colleagues wishes

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AFOLNerd · 05/11/2018 16:40

New guy started at work and quite frankly he is a creep! He has made a couple of comments to me regarding some menial part of the job.
“Aw you would be better at that than me as you are a woman” while stroking my arm! I think he got the message that I wasn’t impressed.

I work with a lovely girl who is pretty young and she confided in me today that he keeps making comments about how nice her arse is, how fit she is etc and generally being a bit touchy feely. I have told her that it isn’t ok that he is doing that but she is worried about the fall out of reporting him to management and has begged me to to say anything.

I have told her that if I see or hear anything myself I will be speaking him and management. We have a lot of young female staff and my guess is that he is behaving like this with all of them, I’m torn between respecting her wishes and not wanting this bloke to get away with it.

OP posts:
Mangoo · 06/11/2018 07:31

What a creep.

Reminds me of an old manager of mine... tried it on with every woman in the office, told me he'd had dreams about me naked etc... I worked in a law firm and he's a partner!

Wish I'd reported it at the time.

Glad you're doing something!

AFOLNerd · 09/11/2018 16:25

UPDATE

Creepy perv is no more!

Not sure exactly what happened but he is gone which is what matters.

OP posts:
Littlewhitedove · 09/11/2018 16:32

Good news OP. Your support to your younger female colleague will hopefully boost her confidence so that if she ever finds herself in a similar situation, she will be able to speak up.

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