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To not returned lost property ever again

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Vex591 · 02/11/2018 16:02

Over the years, I have found numerous bank cards, phones, wallets with cash, bags etc. and always done the right thing and tried hard to get things back to their owners with a 90% success rate - the only thing not able to trace was a child's backpack and toy I found on a path and then posted to local Mums pages.

About two months ago, my DH managed to lose his wallet and it has never been returned despite having his driving license in it, it had £200 in it and really left us in the lurch. We later discovered his pocket had ripped away from his jeans so likely fell down through his leg unnoticed.

This week we have been away at Center Parcs. My 15 year old son saved his monthly pocket money and all the spending money gifted to him to buy a computer game when we got home and had saved £50. Yesterday afternoon we hunted for the wallet and can last remember having it in the burger place and then we went to a disco on site. We spent the whole of yesterday evening trying to find it and once again having revisited every venue and lost property it hasn't been handed in. He is absolutely gutted, it's ruined his holiday and he was looking forward to coming home and buying his game, he was so sensible with his spending so that he could save.

I'm so cross and upset. It's clearly not an adults wallet and I had hoped it would have been handed in.

What's the point in doing the right thing when noone else seems to? How can we get unlucky twice for these wallets to be found by people with no conscience when I couldn't live with myself if it was the other way round?

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makingmiracles · 02/11/2018 20:42

great that it turned up. DONT Let other people’s bad morals cloud your own though.
Been lucky enough so far to not lose anything but last winter I was returning to my car from shopping and as I crossed the car park I found a wallet. Once Home I checked the cards and luckily the young women’s provisional licence was in there and I used her address to call bt to see if they could give me a number, rang the number and her dad answered, she’d not even realised she’d lost it! They drove over to collect it and she was pretty relieved as it had her £400 student digs rent money in.

Locally to me this year I read on fb that someone had taken out £4500 in cash in an envelope on their way to purchase a van, stopped at Wetherspoons for breakfast and left it there by mistake, never got handed in, bet the owner was devastated.

Coyoacan · 02/11/2018 23:01

You should continue being a nice person or someone else will be feeling as you are now

I have had things returned to me, but we often don't. But I'm proud to say that all my friends will move heaven and earth to return something to its rightful owner.

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