To the Original Poster (OP).
Well done on looking to shift some weight, that's the first big step in actually doing it. I am related to, and work with, a number of people (male & female) who are in total denial about the issue that is their weight.
If I can offer a number of recommendations (take them or leave them as you see fit)
- Ditch the booze. Easier said than done, I know, I am a bit of a vino-lover, but booze is fatal for any manner of weight loss programme. There are dozens of coincidental benefits to abstaining, but that's another story.
- Make 2/3 of any plate of food you eat green food. Doesn't matter what. And there are loads of low calorie, really tasty, salad dressings etc you can put on aforementioned rabbit food to make it taste nice.
- Treats - depends what you mean by this. If your 'treat' is a 1kg bar of Cadbury's Dairy Milk, then you're undoing the weight loss value of the exercise you take and any diet you are on. If your 'treat' is an apple, it's not such a big issue.
- Get amongst like minded people. This is a HUGE motivator for weight loss, exercise etc. Weight Watchers (WW) is about 5 quid per meeting; if you can't afford that then write your weight in your diary, on your calendar etc and take great delight in watching it eventually go down.
5 Avoid silly fad diets, like the 'Cabbage Soup' diet, or these daft detoxes you see advertised. You'll feel like s**t, smell like it too, and will likely gorge on food when you go back to 'normal eating'.
I hope all of the above helps; to evidence the effectiveness of the above, I lost 2 & 1/2 stone last year over a 5 month period by following the rules above. I then re-discovered vino & beer as of Jan this year, and have put on a stone of the weight I lost....... As our American friends would say, 'Go figure'.
Drop me a private email if I can help further , and very good luck with your efforts. You can do it, very easily, just keep telling yourself that!!!
Sp