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To LTB (lighthearted)

36 replies

lemsipsareshit · 21/10/2018 09:04

I am full of cold, feel like shite and hubby won't stop pestering me for sex

Would I be unreasonable to kick him (gently) in the nuts whenever he attempts to get his way??

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Trogdor · 24/10/2018 07:44

I also hate these threads. It's NOT a subject to be giggled over in a 'aren't men silly' way. He fiddles with your body when you are unconscious! It's grim.

lemsipsareshit · 24/10/2018 07:53

He wasn't "fiddling with my body while I slept" when I first posted. I agree it's not funny

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AntiHop · 24/10/2018 07:57

That's not acceptable behaviour op. Poor you.

Shoxfordian · 24/10/2018 08:11

Yeah nothing funny or light hearted about a sex pest
Just one step below a rapist really

Oysterbabe · 24/10/2018 08:18

This isn't lighthearted at all. It's not ok to pester for sex, if someone says no then that is that. Groping you while you're trying to sleep is not on at all. You need to tell him to pack it the fuck in immediately.

IceBearRocks · 24/10/2018 08:37

Reported

lemsipsareshit · 24/10/2018 08:44

Why @IceBearRocks ??

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Trogdor · 24/10/2018 08:52

But if you treat all his other sex-pestering in a lighthearted jokey manner, then he won't think anything of continuing when you are asleep, will he?

What did you actually do/say when you woke up to being molested??

lemsipsareshit · 24/10/2018 08:56

I tell him to fuck off everytime.

His pestering never works, no idea why he can't take the hint.

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PoptartPoptart · 24/10/2018 08:59

So you tell him not to do it but he continues anyway?
Not lighthearted (as I said several days ago in my posts but got flamed for it) and not ok.
It’s disgusting behaviour.

Trogdor · 24/10/2018 09:01

Maybe show him this thread? Disgust soon turns into disdain, he will ruin things if he can't keep his pervert hands under control. Seriously.

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