My DS (11) has recently started secondary school, and has made friends with someone in school and he went there for tea yesterday.
His friends mum collected him from school and I collected my DS from the friends house later on.
I was a bit a bit shocked when I collected him at the size of the house. There were six bathrooms, and each of the children had a suite of rooms to themselves - a bedroom, a games room, a tech room, and an en-suite. They also have a swimming pool, a games room with pool table, tennis court and lake with row boat.
Although I didn't venture in more than the hallway, I could see granite worktops, hand painted tiles, aga, high end appliances and Emma Bridgwater crockery in the kitchen and a couple of dogs out the back.
I could also see into one of the other down stairs rooms and there was a mixture of antique and high end modern furnitues, piles of books and expensive rugs on the floor.
Mum seemed very nice, but I feel uncomfortable about my DS going into a house which was in this state. He wants to go there again this week AIBU to try and discourage it.