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To take this job?!

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NewYoiker · 19/10/2018 04:10

DH thinks I'm an idiot for even considering.

I have worried agency in a busy ward environment for the past 5 years. 3-4 nights a week, it's killing me! We're enjoying my salary however i can't carry on like this.

So I applied for and got a job at a very prestigious hospital in a department I've always wanted to work in, change is as good as a rest etc, but DH saw my contract tonight and it's hit him that my salary will go down.

Currently I earn £15.31 per hour and will be going down to 11.77 per hour.

I know it's a lot less but the job is permanent and I've been wanted to not do nights for years and I've not gone up a pay band for years so that would be nice.

We're currently not speaking and I've told him I'm taking the job whether he supports me or not, and that it's my turn to have a job I want instead of working around his business. We have no children it won't really affect us other than disposable income, but I worked out tonight that even with my 'pay cut' we'll have £1000 a month after bills which is more than enough to me!

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NewYoiker · 20/10/2018 06:38

I accepted the job. DH agreed it's a good idea. I need a routine

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NewYoiker · 20/10/2018 06:40

Oops finished too soon! I start on the 29th of October. It's been 12 weeks since my interview and I've waited so long for this job. I got through all of it. Tonight is my last shift.
I wanted a week off!

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Ansumpasty · 20/10/2018 06:46

Take the job! Shift work takes years off your life.

Life is about finding happiness- if your happiness isn’t important to him then I would consider if he has your best I interests at heart...

DianaT1969 · 20/10/2018 06:46

Presumably you'll get employer's pension contribution in the new job?

Ansumpasty · 20/10/2018 06:46

Whoops, didn’t see your last post! Good!

NewYoiker · 20/10/2018 07:08

@Ansumpasty haha it's okay!
@DianaT1969 yes I'll get nhs pension

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Tahani · 20/10/2018 09:44

Well done!!!

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