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Would you say something if a restaurant undercharged you?

244 replies

MrsClayneCrawford · 18/10/2018 17:20

Went out for meal with DH & mutual friend. The bill came & they hadn't charged us for my meal. I thought cha ching & said to keep stum but friend ignored me & told the waitress. I was really miffed & abit pissed off with my friend. Would you have told them or kept quiet? It was a chain not a family run place if that makes a difference.

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PavlovianLunge · 18/10/2018 18:20

I am laughing at all.the self righteousness on here. Meanwhile back in the real world i would pay what they asked for ..not my fault they can't count the number of meals

It’s not self-righteousness, it’s doing the right thing. But whatever, enjoy the laughs and your own self-righteousness.

Hoopaloop · 18/10/2018 18:23

Unless they had been completely cunty with me/us, I'd tell them. Not really had anyone be actual cunty though. Inept yes, but not cunty.

MrsScrubbingbrush · 18/10/2018 18:23

Had a lovely meal in a local Lebanese restaurant. The bill came to £74 but the waiter put £47 in the card reader. Wasn't really paying attention so put in my PIN . When I looked at the bill again I realised what had happened, went back & paid the difference. The waiter was very grateful.

Shoxfordian · 18/10/2018 18:24

Yeah I'd say something but then I'm not a thief

KarmaStar · 18/10/2018 18:27

Your friend was right.we took family out to lunch and they only put drinks on the bill not the food.I told the waitress.she was so pleased,said it would have come out of her wages.
Best to be honest up imho

Notonthestairs · 18/10/2018 18:29

When I have noticed a mistake I have always pointed it out (it does go both ways - I'm not happy to be over charged either Grin). I've waitressed and know how difficult it can be on occasions.

Pebblespony · 18/10/2018 18:29

I would if I noticed it at the time but I wouldn't go back to do it.

Kittykat93 · 18/10/2018 18:30

Nah I wouldn't say anything.

DaysofWineandNeurosis · 18/10/2018 18:31

I would and have done on a few occasions. Much like a fair few other posters, I’ve worked as a waitress where we would be liable for covering any mistakes and it’s awful. I’d hate to do that to someone else.

DunesOfSand · 18/10/2018 18:35

Ok, I've been out of the UK for a few years, but have tips really rocketed? Also the 15 or 18% tip made my eyebrows shoot up, because if this is right, I've been pissing off waiting staff every holiday for a bit Blush

nonevernotever · 18/10/2018 18:35

As others have said if you notice and don't say anything it's a form of theft. I would always point it out, and have phoned a supermarket before to try and pay the extra when I realised the cashier had given me a staff discount. They wouldn't take it so I got a saving plus felt good about myself. Honesty is really important to me and if someone can't be honest about small things how can I trust them to be honest about the big things?

letsgetreadytosamba · 18/10/2018 18:42

I would point it out quick enough if it was the other way, so I do point it out. It doesn’t happen often but it means I don’t feel guilty 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pursefirst · 18/10/2018 18:42

Wouldn't have noticed, as I don't generally check the bill in detail. While I sympathize with the server if their wages were docked, it's not really my responsibility to check the bill in great detail (especially after wine/drinks). It goes the other way too before I'm jumped on if i was overcharged, I likely wouldn't notice either.

LaurieFairyCake · 18/10/2018 18:44

I would point it out as I would have already been able to afford it and 'spent' it.

The idea of conning anyone gives me the shivers as I've been utterly fucked over in the past.

Scatteredthoughtss · 18/10/2018 18:48

I also don't generally check, although I would have noticed a main meal. I think I'd feel too bad not to point it out.

starzig · 18/10/2018 18:49

I would. Nothing to do with moral high ground. It is just an automatic response. Anybody saying no would be quick enough saying if they overcharged.

Dandeeli · 18/10/2018 18:50

Would I heck!

Terfzilla · 18/10/2018 18:52

I wouldnt point it out.

I'm probably headed to the hot place.

shirleyschmidt · 18/10/2018 18:53

Yep. DH and I had a meal in a hotel recently and our bottle of fizz was missed off. We debated it and decided it might get the waitress into trouble.

austenozzy · 18/10/2018 18:53

Yes, and have done. Small Italian family restaurant, only one bottle of wine added to bill, should have been two. We told them, they were very grateful and gave us a load of limoncello and some little puddings as a thank you! Stayed at the bar for a few drinks with them too, lovely people.

Anyone who knowingly takes advantage of an incorrect low bill is a thieving arsehole.

AllHallowsQueen · 18/10/2018 18:55

It depends on the restaurant. If it was great food, great service, good value for money and an established business then I would say something. If I felt like any of those things were lacking I wouldn’t mention it tbh.

PavlovianLunge · 18/10/2018 18:55

Anyone who knowingly takes advantage of an incorrect low bill is a thieving arsehole.

This.

AllHallowsQueen · 18/10/2018 18:56

Sorry I mean if it wasn’t a well established business I would say something.

peachsquish · 18/10/2018 19:00

Told them, I don't like dishonesty

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 18/10/2018 19:01

I would do it whether it was a chain or an independent restaurant.

If it was a chain I would be afraid that a slip up on behalf of the server would mean it would be taken from his/her wages so they would lose out on my behalf.

If it was an independent place I would do it because small local businesses need support not opportunist customers who will take advantage.

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